Confusion with self map
This might be my too technical brain playing around here, but I have trouble comprehending the self map. I see it as like an X,Y graph, but I don't understand how things can fall between the four elements
For instance, how are ideas and accomplishments on the opposite sides of the spectrum, and life story and people also. If I have a person that is semi-close, I can see putting it in between the top 'people' point and the central point, but how would this person be set further left or further right?
https://ibb.co/m86nZGZ <-- screen shot of map with a bunch of points which appears on Sean's video
I've had this confusion as well, but I am having a hard time coming up with things to add to my self map. family, job, etc. But when I find myself having an emotional reaction, I find it hard to figure out the thing that needs to be added to my self map. AND how would I move something off the self map if I don't really know what belongs there? I think I'm going to have to go back and watch all those earlier lessons to figure this out.
i am having the same issue. most of my emotional reactions are results of impatience/punctuation/selfishness. If they are little things like "long lines at the grocery store" etc how do we tie that to the map? am i impatient because i feel threatened by the long line? Would that be <ME at the center dot? I may need to go back and re watch too lol
